Remy Ma Explains What Led Up To Creating Her Nicki Minaj Diss Track "ShETHER"

BY Erika Marie 24.8K Views
Link Copied to Clipboard!
Phillip Faraone/Getty Images
Remy Ma, Papoose
She thought that she and Nicki were cool at one point.

It's been almost three years since Remy Ma dropped her scathing Nicki Minaj diss track "ShETHER," a release that drew a line in the sand between the two women. There were rumors that Nicki took a verbal shot at Remy in her "Make Love" verse, and Remy wasted no time jumping on the mic to retaliate with nearly seven-minutes of bars.

Phillip Faraone/Getty Images

Recently, Remy chatted with Hollywood Unlocked and Jason Lee asked her about what led up to the beef and the diss track. "I've seen her from when she first started and she was trying to get on," Remy said. "I had great respect for what she was able to do and what she was able to achieve. When I came home we had had a conversation where she actually reached out to me and we spoke and I was just like, I already know 'cause I been through this. As women in this industry, if you go two chicks and they both pretty and they both being put in magazines, on videos, or whatever, and they're the 'it' girls...it's gonna be these two [against each other]. We had a real conversation. Anything I say, they gon' say I'm comin' at you. Anything you say, they gon' say you comin' at me. We're not gon' let it get to us and I thought that's where we was at."

As far as Remy was concerned, she and Nicki agreed not to let anyone get in their ears because they weren't going to come for one another. "What led up to the whole 'ShETHER' thing was I just kept hearing so many things behind the scenes and I didn't understand. Why would you do this to me? Why was this happening? It wasn't even stopping the bags, it was just like, petty sh*t. Just corny [stuff] that I saw with my own eyes."

"I was already annoyed at everything that was going on," Rem continued. "I was like, 'Yo, as long as this is the way it is, nobody—not just me—no women are going to be able to succeed as long as this is how it is. If you don't sound like this, if you don't look like this, if you're not bowing down to her, we're never gonna get nowhere." So Remy was ready to square up in the booth. "I don't give a f*ck now. This is what we doin'." 

Papoose was the only one who supported her while everyone else told her not to go forward ith the track because she may upset some people. Remy said she didn't care because people already weren't doing business with her, so it didn't matter. She admitted that she may have taken things too far, but she just wants people to leave her alone. Check out her explanation beginning around the 9:30 mark and listen to "ShETHER" below.


About The Author
Since 2019, Erika Marie has worked as a journalist for HotNewHipHop, covering music, film, television, art, fashion, politics, and all things regarding entertainment. With 20 years in the industry under her belt, Erika Marie moved from a writer on the graveyard shift at HNHH to becoming a Features Editor, highlighting long-form content and interviews with some of Hip Hop’s biggest stars. She has had the pleasure of sitting down with artists and personalities like DJ Jazzy Jeff, Salt ’N Pepa, Nick Cannon, Rah Digga, Rakim, Rapsody, Ari Lennox, Jacquees, Roxanne Shante, Yo-Yo, Sean Paul, Raven Symoné, Queen Naija, Ryan Destiny, DreamDoll, DaniLeigh, Sean Kingston, Reginae Carter, Jason Lee, Kamaiyah, Rome Flynn, Zonnique, Fantasia, and Just Blaze—just to name a few. In addition to one-on-one chats with influential public figures, Erika Marie also covers content connected to the culture. She’s attended and covered the BET Awards as well as private listening parties, the Rolling Loud festival, and other events that emphasize established and rising talents. Detroit-born and Long Beach (CA)-raised, Erika Marie has eclectic music taste that often helps direct the interests she focuses on here at HNHH. She finds it necessary to report on cultural conversations with respect and honor those on the mic and the hardworking teams that help get them there. Moreover, as an advocate for women, Erika Marie pays particular attention to the impact of femcees. She sits down with rising rappers for HNHH—like Big Jade, Kali, Rubi Rose, Armani Caesar, Amy Luciani, and Omerettà—to gain their perspectives on a fast-paced industry.