Will Smith Explains Why Seeing His Father Beat His Mother Made Him Feel Like A "Coward"

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Smith told Letterman detailed how he used comedy to cope.

When watching Will Smith's episode of My Next Guest Needs No Introduction, a disclaimer appears. It tells viewers that this interview between Smith and David Letterman occurred prior to the infamous Academy Awards slap involving Chris Rock, making the content even more compelling for Netflix streamers. The conversation is poignant as Smith revisits the traumas of his childhood, including witnessing his father beat his mother at just nine years old.

 “And I didn’t do anything,” he said. “And that just left a traumatic impression of myself as a coward.”

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“There’s a person that you want to be and a person you want to be viewed as, and then there’s who you really are.” Smith turned to comedy as a way to cope with the chaos. “Ultimately ‘Will Smith’ became a symbol of joy and fun, and when I showed up, I wanted people to be happy, because I found that when my household was that way, I felt safe.”

That "joy and fun" reputation has followed him throughout his career and Smith seemingly recognizes that he isn't allowed to stray from that. However, he was excited about what was to come.

“Life is so exciting to me right now because I can reach people differently than I’ve ever been able to reach people, largely because of my pain. I’m really ready to dive into my art in a way that I think will be hopefully fulfilling for me and helpful for the human family.” 


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Since 2019, Erika Marie has worked as a journalist for HotNewHipHop, covering music, film, television, art, fashion, politics, and all things regarding entertainment. With 20 years in the industry under her belt, Erika Marie moved from a writer on the graveyard shift at HNHH to becoming a Features Editor, highlighting long-form content and interviews with some of Hip Hop’s biggest stars. She has had the pleasure of sitting down with artists and personalities like DJ Jazzy Jeff, Salt ’N Pepa, Nick Cannon, Rah Digga, Rakim, Rapsody, Ari Lennox, Jacquees, Roxanne Shante, Yo-Yo, Sean Paul, Raven Symoné, Queen Naija, Ryan Destiny, DreamDoll, DaniLeigh, Sean Kingston, Reginae Carter, Jason Lee, Kamaiyah, Rome Flynn, Zonnique, Fantasia, and Just Blaze—just to name a few. In addition to one-on-one chats with influential public figures, Erika Marie also covers content connected to the culture. She’s attended and covered the BET Awards as well as private listening parties, the Rolling Loud festival, and other events that emphasize established and rising talents. Detroit-born and Long Beach (CA)-raised, Erika Marie has eclectic music taste that often helps direct the interests she focuses on here at HNHH. She finds it necessary to report on cultural conversations with respect and honor those on the mic and the hardworking teams that help get them there. Moreover, as an advocate for women, Erika Marie pays particular attention to the impact of femcees. She sits down with rising rappers for HNHH—like Big Jade, Kali, Rubi Rose, Armani Caesar, Amy Luciani, and Omerettà—to gain their perspectives on a fast-paced industry.