Moniece Slaughter Calls Out Reality TV, "Love & Hip Hop": "We're No Longer Respected"

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Andy Cohen reportedly told a Real Housewife that her physical fight embarrassed his show & added, "This is not 'Love & Hip Hop.'"

Reality television has often been criticized for its portrayals of certain demographics. Networks like VH1 and MTV helped shape the reality TV wave that does not seem to have an end, but producers are often bombarded with backlash over the physical altercations and negative stereotypes. It isn't just MTV and VH1 catching heat; Bravo, WEtv, and others have also been targeted.

Recently, The Real Housewives of Potomac concluded their latest season with their reunion special, and cast member Candiace Dillard penned a lengthy message online detailing why she was upset with producer Andy Cohen. He reportedly responded by telling her that her physical altercation with another cast member made the show look bad because RHOP "is not Love& Hip Hop."

After reading about the controversy, former Love & Hip Hop star Moniece Slaughter emerged with a reaction and it solidified her decision to leave the famed VH1 franchise.

"I don’t know @bravoandy And I want to sit this right here. THIS!!!! This is why I left love and hip hop," wrote Slaughter. "Whether I like my cast mates & they like me or not, we are a VERY talented, beautiful group of individuals. The fighting. The perpetual cycle of degradation of our own people, became so exhausting. And even more frustrating, is the fact that we’re no longer respected for the same reasons we were initially casted. Singers. Songwriters. Producers. Directors. WOMEN!!!!"

Although Slaughter is "grateful" for "what the platform did for me monetarily," she also recognized that this "hasn't been beneficial AFTER the fact; for MOST of us." She added "It’s so disheartening that this is what Love and Hip Hop has meant for most of us. It’s become the Epitome of low class, bottom feeding behavior. It’s become the 'what not to be,' in the 'Reality Tv' space. And it’s hurtful I’m not going to lie. Because we bear our souls & we go through real things. But we’re so disregarded."

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"I’d really like to see the game change. Because whether people want to respect it or not, there are MILLIONS of young women who have selected LHH cast, franchise wide as Role Models!" Slaughter also posed a question to Cohen, asking when a conversation about certain narratives and portrayals will happen.

Others have noted that several of Cohen's shows including Real Housewives of New Jersey, Vanderpump Rules, and Real Housewives of New York have all had some form of physical altercations. Read through Moniece Slaughter's message in full below.

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Since 2019, Erika Marie has worked as a journalist for HotNewHipHop, covering music, film, television, art, fashion, politics, and all things regarding entertainment. With 20 years in the industry under her belt, Erika Marie moved from a writer on the graveyard shift at HNHH to becoming a Features Editor, highlighting long-form content and interviews with some of Hip Hop’s biggest stars. She has had the pleasure of sitting down with artists and personalities like DJ Jazzy Jeff, Salt ’N Pepa, Nick Cannon, Rah Digga, Rakim, Rapsody, Ari Lennox, Jacquees, Roxanne Shante, Yo-Yo, Sean Paul, Raven Symoné, Queen Naija, Ryan Destiny, DreamDoll, DaniLeigh, Sean Kingston, Reginae Carter, Jason Lee, Kamaiyah, Rome Flynn, Zonnique, Fantasia, and Just Blaze—just to name a few. In addition to one-on-one chats with influential public figures, Erika Marie also covers content connected to the culture. She’s attended and covered the BET Awards as well as private listening parties, the Rolling Loud festival, and other events that emphasize established and rising talents. Detroit-born and Long Beach (CA)-raised, Erika Marie has eclectic music taste that often helps direct the interests she focuses on here at HNHH. She finds it necessary to report on cultural conversations with respect and honor those on the mic and the hardworking teams that help get them there. Moreover, as an advocate for women, Erika Marie pays particular attention to the impact of femcees. She sits down with rising rappers for HNHH—like Big Jade, Kali, Rubi Rose, Armani Caesar, Amy Luciani, and Omerettà—to gain their perspectives on a fast-paced industry.